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My boyfriend and I have been together now for 3 years and loved each other for a little over 4. We're currently in a Long distance relationship and trying to make the best until we can be together less then 4 months. Lately, the past month he's changed and doesn't really seem like he loves me much anymore. He can say things like he loves me and he's in love with me but, with me words are just words and it takes a little more effort to prove me to he loves me. He use to do little things like send me letters, cards, but this year he didn't even bother to mention our anniversary until it was a little too late. I'm sick of the long distance but, I don't want to loose this great guy, I've tried everything to talk to him but, he still doesn't get it. What are some things to get him to realize how much i love him and that I won't give up on this like he is.
I think you may be reading
Submitted by Adren on June 30, 2009 - 6:26pm.I think you may be reading too much into the situation.. I'm sure he has a lot going on wherever he's at and if less than four months is all you need to be together again just wait it out.. stop mentioning it to him that you don't think he loves you the same.. that's kind of annoying.. if he's with you and has been for this long then he obviously still loves you otherwise he would not be with you.. wait it out and see what happens but stop bugging him about you.. just do what you do and continue loving him the way you do.. good luck.
I just got out of a 3 year
Submitted by kalila910 on June 30, 2009 - 10:40am.I just got out of a 3 year long distance relationship. I am sure we could have made it work, but I decided I wanted out so that I could live up my single years since we were apart anyway. It was the distance that took its toll on our relationship. Every time we were back together, we would fall back into love. Sometimes its "out of sight, out of mind." I would go visit him, I know that always meant the world to my boyfriend. If you're really worried about how he feels, you will be able to find out where he stands in person better than over the phone. Either way, I would probably try to stick it out for the next four months until you are together, and see how things go then. Relationships will always have ups and downs. He may just be in one of those "downs" and before you know it he will be back to himself!