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okay, long story short , i was in 6th grade , i liked a boy who was in a children's home my dad worked out , and the boy went to school with me ... we liked eachother , but we we're best friends , so we both just never told eachother , AWKWARD.. anyways . . the end of 7th grade he moved , i got back in touch with him via facebook in like 9th/10th grade , sometime around in april he got this girl friend , then in may he went to jail .. while he was in jail i wrote him & he said alot of stuff to me about getting together & all of that good stuff ! i just kind of ignored it because i thought it was prison talk, recently he got out , he's been texting me saying all the same stuff , he broke up with his girl BUT we live a few hours away from eachother, here's what i need help with , apparently he wasn't 'prison talking' to me , and we STILL have feelings for eachother , but he NEVER texts me first , but he'll comment / message me on face book , then when i text him we end up texting all day... these past couple of days though , i will text him & arre convos are so short & simple ! i reallllly like him & i really want to talk to him , but i don't know what to even say ! what can i do to keep us talking longer ? or anything ? ( please dont say anything like boooo he sucks he was in jail blah blah , i know this ! ) by the way , my cousin added him on facebook & he messaged her to see who she was , then she said "she's my cousin , you guys are good friends huh ?" he wrote back "yeah thats my best friend she wrote me alot in jail , thats what i like about her she keeps it real"
I agree - Maybe he is unsure
Submitted by Cheerio11582 on February 4, 2010 - 2:57pm.I agree - Maybe he is unsure how you feel and afraid to "scare" you off. I learned that a lot of guys have problems telling people how they feel. They think we should know and guess. But it doesnt work that way - I say be honest - see how he feels - tell him you dont want to hurt the friendship but you seem there may be a possibility of being more than best friends. Start out slow, and say what you mean - dont beat around the bush
don't try so hard.. just keep
Submitted by Adren on February 3, 2010 - 4:24am.don't try so hard.. just keep looking for him but don't appear desparate or needy in any way.. have you told him how you feel.. communication is an essential for any relationship, especially in the beginning.. you have to communicate with him exactly what you feel and exactly what your fears and concerns are.. only then can you figure out exactly what needs to happen next.. good luck.