im worried

rgs-jman's picture

well, ive been seeing this girl online for 2 yrs now and were dating online and we started, talking to eachother on the phone, she tells me whats going on and she says the ex she has in real keeps messing with her and saying nasty stuff to her and its getting me mad, but i cant do anything, im 13 and i really like this girl and im also worried cause she talks to her other ex that was my friend which hes not now, and im afraid since she talks to him im gonna lose her, I NEED HELP!!!!

what should i do about these problems?

you should calm down stop worrying about it and if it bothers you so much just tell her

amorous's picture

relax. ok first, dating relationships get bumpy and i'm sure you hear this but do not get in a serious relationship this young. she could just be friends with her ex's. you need to chill out and slowly seperate yourself from her. and future advice do not get attached to someone over the computer. the majority of the time it just leads to pain, if you want i can even do research but unless you meet them on match or something then they won't last and they probably arent being totally honest

Destini's picture

tell her to talk to the ex who is saying nasty things and to tell him to back off! about the ex friend of yours is where things get complicated, because it is a touchy situation, but you should tell your friend with all do respect you don't like the fact that he is talking to her. make it understood that you are with her now and let her know that you don't appreciate what these guys are doing. she has the CHOICE of ignoring them or instigating the situation. tell her to cut off the communication between them.

I HOPE FOR THE BEST FOR YOU TWO!

*Destini*

CB What's picture

Try to find out more about her ex.
maybe a little snooping around.

Online relationship is very hard.
You really can't do anything physically to talk to the boy.

The best thing you can do is to let your girlfriend know that you are here for her, and not her ex.

Charlene's picture

Your so young right now.
This relationship is probably not going to go any further.
long distance relationships are very hard to keep going...
Don't take this too seriously.

jacky1994's picture

online relationships arent good..
thats all I can say..
you should probably get out of this relationship