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QuotesShould I go back to him?
Submitted by kalila910 on June 30, 2009 - 10:49am
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I broke up with my boyfriend two months ago. We had been together for over three years. We met in high school, survived our first two years together at different colleges. He is now transferring to a school only one hour from me. Our relationship had its issues, like any other, but he is a wonderful guy who treated me very well. Although we have a lot in common (such as values), our personalities are very different. For instance, our sense of humor is very different, and since I cope with life through humor, this sometimes makes things hard. I definitely felt relieved when we broke up and I would love to have a year or two being single, but I also miss him terribly, and I'm sure another girl is bound to snatch him up soon.
From what I picked up on is
Submitted by Adren on June 30, 2009 - 6:46pm.From what I picked up on is that you felt "relieved".. you obviously broke up with him for a reason.. and it's natural to miss him and worry that you may have made a mistake and are jealous thinking of him and someone else.. it's part of breaking up.. but you made a decision and I think it was the right one.. he's probably thinking the same things too.. and someone may snatch you up before he gets snatched up.. relief after a break up is a sign that it was what was necessary.. those feelings will pass.