do guys gossip?
I don't know what the deal is with these 2 male friends that I have, and this is really bothering me. Well actually we are not that close friends or anything, we just hang out once in a while. One of them told other people that he actually doesnt like me. OK I dont like him either, so I ignore him. I try to avoid him as much as I can. But then my bff told me he always talks about me with her (about how bad I am, lol), and he always mentions about me when he's with his guy friends as well. I mean I dont do anything that can possibly piss him off, I ignore him, I avoid him the whole time. We never talk; we never encounter each other in any way. So what makes him so hateful towards me???? We used to hang out and have fun together. He changed so fast!!! And the other guy ( I mentioned 2 male friends), well we made out once. I actually don't really care about it anymore after that night, and I dont like him as a bf or anything; but he keeps mentioning about me kissing him (it was he who started the kiss), then he keeps teasing me the whole time. Why would he do that? I hate the fact he's nice to my bff and 2 other girls but he teases me. Idk what his problem is. And he found out I used to like someone else, he asked me why did i kiss him when I liked someone else. From time to time sometimes he says he doesnt wanna be friends with me, and he will just be so mean, other times he talks to me again, and he will be like well, talking and being friends are different. I really don't know what they are thinking. I hate the fact that now we can't be friends anymore! HELPPPPPP!
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i think they both like you.
Submitted by irishryan1 on April 1, 2010 - 1:20pm.i think they both like you. if he is mean to you, that is an obvious sign that he truly loves you. i think you should ask him about this. plz answer my question.!!!
sounds like they may both
Submitted by Moderator on March 25, 2010 - 5:39pm.sounds like they may both like you.. often times, sadly, when a person likes somebody and that like isn't reciprocated they tend to behave foolishly and act as if they don't like you and bad mouth you.. it has happened to me before.. it's very childish.. the fact of the matter is, if you really don't like somebody (as a person) then you wouldn't even bother talking about them or to them at all.. and the teasing.. well, he just wants to get the right reaction from you, which is not what you are giving them.. these "friendships" are a lost cause.. cut them both out of your life and let them talk shit.. you can't stop them from doing it but you can stop it from affecting you.. who cares about them, they're losers apparently.. ditch the dodo's and move on with your life.. you're just going to have to let it go, the fact that they will talk about you.. but hey, if you weren't anybody then people wouldn't be talking about you.. think about it that way.. good luck.