friends who don't see you the same way you see them

Ever sign on to myspace or something at look at one of your friends pages and realize you're like 9th in their top when they're like 4th in yours? well it seems like thats been happening way to much to me lately. why does this happen? you think you're close with somebody but then realize they pretty much don't like or value you as much as you do them,or at least as much as you thought they did. so what i'm asking is, why does this happen? how can i avoid/prevent it? and how can i avoid feeling let-down and kind of embarrassed when this happens?

Well they could be a Megan. A Megan is a type of girl who is only friends with you for gossip. If you aren't a gossipy person, bring up the subject and ask them why you are 9th. The other girls on their could be her sister or cousins, or a close family friend.

Adren's picture

getting all worked up about not being on someone's top is just plain silly.. who cares.. as long as you're there right.. you're friends.. doesn't mean you're not as important or that they don't know you as well or whatever.. it just means that people's relationships are different with everybody.. usually the first people on someone's top is their boyfriend/girlfriend or cousins.. it's silly to get all offended at the top spot in someone's page.. years ago when there was no such thing as myspace or facebook you were friends and that was it, you kept in touch no big deal.. why all the fuss or someone's silly page.. i have lots of friends and i couldn't even begin to place them in order.. i put my page to display my friends on random each time it refreshes.