Home
Articles
Blogs
Invite
Leaderboard
Members
QuotesOne of my good friends knows i like a girl and continues to flirt with her anyways. what should i do?
so ive been trying to go out with this girl for about 7 months now. we recently got really engaged and started doing stuff and i had to call her every night until she fell asleep. about 2 days ago i was dropping her off back at my school to get her car and one of my very good friends was there skateboarding. i had literally talked to the kid about trying to get the girl not 2 hours before this during the last period of the day. he starts flirting with her and trying to get her attention. i didnt think much of it cuz hes a flirty guy. but the next day there was a party and i had no idea that he had gone out of his way to pick her up from her house and drive her to the party, where he seemingly tried to keep her away from me. when he left to take her home because he was tired, i asked him if he was honestly going to do this to me and he just shrugged and go in his car. i know that the kid has 15 other girls that are mostly more attractive than this girl and that she is not the kind of girl that he would want to date. should i talk to him about this in depth or just let it go and see what happens because she says that she likes me alot as well
It is so funny in a sense
Submitted by Cheerio11582 on November 17, 2009 - 10:18am.It is so funny in a sense that you have this story - Let me explain I had a similar thing happen. I have known this guy for at least 10 years, always had those type of feelings, we were off and on and off and on several times. He knew how i felt about him. My Best friend and I went up to hang out one time and they winded up "messing" around, man was I hurt - But I told her straight up that I would never have done that to her, and i can not believe she stooped that low to do it to me. She thought she ruined our friendship - which it did go down hill, but then after a "newer" friend, knew about all this, she did the same thing to me, or so i thought. She made it seem that way - and in my opinion - I will not date a guy or pursue if I know my friend has something for someone, it is not fair for me, but that is my opinion. But anyway - I talked to this guy and he ahd a whole different story. So maybe he isn't into her like you think, are you sure he was keeping her away from you?? I would probably talk to both of them. Get both stories. See how she feels about you. amd see how he feels about her - If he is a good friend he will be honest and truthful. Tell him how you felt when that happened. I know this is much easier said then done, but sometimes I wish i would've done it in my situation, or situations. It hurts - I know.
I think you should talk to
Submitted by Miss_Answers on November 16, 2009 - 8:33pm.I think you should talk to her about it. If he has already done somthing like this, then obviously talking to him wont do any good. You should ask her if she is intrested in you, and if she wants to have a relationship. If she says yes, then you've got her. He will start to leave her alone if he knows she is with you, because if she is a good girlfriend, then she will tell him to back off, and that she has decided to be with you. The best thing to do, is to tell her how you feel. I hope things work out for you good luck :]