What do I do about this situation?

I have this friend that I developed strong romantic feelings for. I do and would everything in the world for her. We always go out to dinner, and I always pay haha. Bottom line, I'm positive that she is the one for me. I told her, I couldn't keep it a secret anymore. She told me "I love you as a friend, sorry"
Here's my problem...it's been a long time, and I still have strong feelings for her. She keeps telling me "You'll get over me I promise; there are a million better girls than me" That's ridiculous, because in my eyes there is no one better! Why does she think my being in love with her is just a phase?
She still wants to be friends, but how can I when she's going to pick other guys over me, especially when they don't treat her as well as I do. She said "I just don't like you" but, for some reason I feel like she will eventually like me. Do I just have to wait? I'm confused, because I really do love her more than anything, literally more than anything. She motivates me, inspires me, she makes me want to be the best I can be. My whole life I just cruised along, until she came along. I just love her way too damn much for her not to like me. I can't stress it enough, and this is why I have a problem. My love for her is true. What do I do?

Well, show her how much you love her. Just remember, if the relationship went wrong, you would lose your friendship. Would it really be worth it to get your way then?

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unfortunatley in the thresholds of love not everybody is a winner.. just because you love someone doesn't mean that they're going to love you too.. the good news is that we are capable of loving again.. I'm sorry this girl didn't return your love.. unrequited love is a tale as old as time.. there really is nothing you can do.. time won't make her love you coz you can't make somebody love you.. you can't find something somewhere where it doesn't exist.. you're going to have to move on.. it's going to be hard and it's going to take a lot of time but you will get over her.. you have to.. good luck.