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QuotesWhat should I do? My friend is being.. idk. Its just confusing and i really need HELP.
Ok well 2 months ago my depression started and I am under treatment. But when I told her, its like she started backing away from me and basically ignoring me. She was one of my best friends. Then after 1 month (now) we talked. She said that i dont talk to her anymore and that were 2 different people and that i dont understand her? What the hell? She is basically saying she doestn want to be my friend anyomre because of how im acting because of my depression. Is she a friend? The thing is.. i only have one other best friend. She is there for me and were super close. Me and my family are super close. Do I need any other people other than those? Please idk..my thoughts are in a jumble and i feel idk horrible and this isnt helping my depression one bit. Should i just kick this other friend to the "curb" as they say it..even though we have been best friends for like 2 years and have great memories? She says she is a "new" person now too..and honestly I just see the same STUPID person as i did before. I dont like being stupid anymore, so i changed. And im smarter and understand things and care for people. Seh says i dont. She doesnt know me. I just want to idk... i feel so discouraged? Help. Give opinons. Idk.
I think she is no longer your
Submitted by Adren on October 16, 2009 - 6:11pm.I think she is no longer your friend, and that's okay.. people drift apart sometimes for one or more of a billion reasons.. there will be more friends and some of those you will lose touch with too.. this is part of life and the decipher between everlasting friendships.. I too have only two best friends and pretty much no one else besides my girlfriend and my three brothers.. everybody else has become acquaintances I run into from time to time.. so No, you don't need her and if you guys aren't seeing eye to eye and one is not willing to work it out then so be it.. but don't blame it on your depression.. it has nothing to do with that.. everybody loses a friend or two or more, just the way it is.. you can't expect all your friends to stick by you forever and if she was your friend she wouldn't be bailing on you knowing you are feeling down.. but the good news is that you have another best friend and you also have your family and you got us, here at jamrie.. good luck and smile, it helps.