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QuotesHow do I learn how to complain?!!!?
against rude, arrogant, pigheaded and bigheaded people? Who are incompetent and don't tell me things straight but just offer me false hope? I need to complain more and stand up for my persona and look to complain following through all the way? As I've let rude and contentious people get away with far too much!!! As I'm a Constant "STRONGWILLED" Soldier at War in Life and with the rest of the World just trying to get by at the tender age of 26, As It's JUST "ME" AGAINST The World!!! This doesn't mean I'm argumentative and troublesome but a nice quiet mild mannered person who just keeps himself to himself constantly pushing forward who just looks to get on with EVRY1 = "BEST WAY" - Constantly confronting his fears!!! And I need to say what I want and want to do more in MY LIfe - to just spit it out as I need to Fully Express myself as I need to say more to Friends, Family, housemate and strangers as well!!! And I need to "SOMETIMES" speak back to people trying to intimidate "ME" by offering me out with a sense of dignity, integrity and Calm!!! People trying to tell me what to do and how to act like they have any right to try and estimate my worth, as I'm just as "GOOD" as EVRY1 ELSE!!! Martin Luther King Jnr, Nelson Mandela and Malcolm X are my major influences on how to live my life!!! I don't want to be constantly causing arguments with people but still!!! And I have had people spit on me when talknig to me and have not said a word when I should have really and truthfully - I know it's in me jus gotta get it out me = as people speak up to me so I should do the same to them, as it's Me By Myself!!!
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I need to Speak My Mind More and just tell the truth on things as if I've got something to say I should be able to say it!!!
I believe that this is a good
Submitted by Adren on June 15, 2010 - 11:33pm.I believe that this is a good start.. your first step in speaking out.. be careful, however, of the words you choose with someone in person.. I would say that you shouldn't complain but assertively let someone know of your difference in opinion but be sure to do it respectfully.. now there will be some people who will get aggravated and are just not worth arguing with.. these people you just walk away from.. I have encounered many in my experience who just aren't open to suggestion and can never be convinced that they are wrong.. just let em' be.. you sound very angry.. be sure to be in a calm state when engaging in a rebuttle.. those are very good people to be influenced by.. just ask yourself in those situations what they would do and how they would handle it.. you shouldn't be afraid to speak your mind as long as you do it with politeness.. don't be rude to people or try to cut them down, no matter how ignorant or pigheaded you think they are.. many times you just have to let people talk shit and you just simply walk away with your head high.. and if someone is spitting while they are talking simply take a step back and nicely say to them that they are letting out a little saliva when they pronunciate.. good luck.