Should I be getting a divorce or am I jumping the gun?

I don't think my husband and I ever should have gotten married. We had broken up and were apart for about 6 months when I went home to visit the fam ( I live across the country.) My family just couldn't understand why I didn't love him anymore. To make a long story short, I couldn't stand the pressure so when I came home, we got married within a week. There were all sorts of red flags; he had serious cold feet, I missed my boyfriend (the guy I had been seeing when I went home). We went and got married and less than 15 mins later he said he had made a mistake and didn't want to be married anymore. So we went and got the marriage license from the minister but unfortunately we found out later that it didn't matter, we were married. So he went on vacation that night for three weeks (away from me, he left me on our WEDDING NIGHT). Unfortunately this is just one example of things we have dealt with. I am not saying I am not at fault here. All I am saying is this is an example. I do care about him. We have been married for a little over a year now. We are in counseling and we are attempting to work it out but I am NOT happy. At this point I am tired of trying and I feel like I have done all I can. Counseling is not helping and I just want to be happy... Am I doing the right thing? I need some piece of mind from people who are not involved emotionally. Thank you for reading... and thanks for any help you can offer.