what to do in a marriage like this....advice please

we got married very young...but we always had hard luck.I always supported him even financially and everything was hard for me and him..i always worked from the day one and it was super hard for him to find good job..now he has a resonable job but he has depts and loans and both incomes are required to pay bill...with my nature of job i have to quit to have baby so i cant even do that ..he is trying his best to get job where he gets good salary.
I just want break and want to have a baby and relax for year or 2.
But it looks impossible....i feel hopeless....all my friend rich ,middle class are sitting at home with babies...it just worked out for them...
when will be my turn...
my hubby got his brother and friend a job and they are very hapy and both there wives are not working anymore and planing for baby..while i am stil waiting..
i know i shouldnt be thinking like this but how long do ihave to waite.
i feel so sad...i realy want a baby ! and i know its not gonna happen.

Adren's picture

you shouldn't rush having a child.. I understand that it is something you want but you simply can't afford to right now.. as soon as you two can pay off your debts you can think about starting a family but don't feel pressured because it seems to you that everybody else is happy coz things aren't always what they seem.. everybody has struggles and having a child is hard no matter who you are and how much you make.. good luck.