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QuotesThe worst situation ever :( Please help
I have a girlfriend. We are together for 3 months. Everything in these 3 months was going just great. Everything. Until a problem showed up. One day, suddenly WITHOUT a reason, my feelings just changed. Example, in one part of the day i feel like i really love her, i want to spend the rest of my life with her, and in that time i keep askin myself how could i change the feelings about her. So, then, everything is okay, and i prey to God that my feelings wont change again. I know it sounds strange. I cant handle it myself, thats why i seek help. So, in a part of the day i feel that what i said before. In other part of the day, my feelings just randomly change, and i dont have the same feelings like i was having. Like i dont love her or so. U know what i mean?:( I really want everything to be as it was. Sometimes i think im retarded or im havin psycho problems. Shes so great and all i dont know why this is happening to me. By the way, im 15 years old (16 on 9th of May), she is 17 (18 on 25th of February), and this is my second relationship.
Shes so great and all. I care for her so much, very much, and maybe im affraid of how much i care for her, and my mind is probably downplaying this, resulting in sometimes thinking that i dont love her or so. I guess i sub consciously think she's too good to be true and that its aint gonna work. I cant break up with her, and i wont...I wouldnt stand that..I will be kicking myself if im gonna do that ever. And i know im better with then without her...Im just confused..:upset:
Can you guys please help me? Any help would be appreciate it. I know that only some words from someone would be enough to change my feelings, and help me stop being confused. Ive expirienced that. I mean it happend before. If you know what i mean. Thanks some much!
If you are talking about that
Submitted by Ellabella on October 19, 2009 - 1:22pm.If you are talking about that great feeling of love in your chest when you are feeling the love toward her...that will come and go. You aren't going to feel that all day every day as you get more used to her. At first there is a lot of excitement when you start to fall in love with someone. After that you still love them but it is a more calm feeling, not that woo-hoo I'm in love feeling all day :) Just relax and don't question yourself so much.
it's all in your head because
Submitted by Adren on October 2, 2009 - 2:22pm.it's all in your head because you are scared that you may love her too much and that she may not feel the same and or that it may one day hurt you so bad and you don't want to deal with it.. you are afraid that she may be the one and it scares you to think that this is it for you.. all perfectly normal.. kind of like wedding day jitters.. relax.. these thoughts will come and go.. just live laugh and love with her.. enjoy your time with someone so great that makes you happy.. that's all you have to ask yourself.. does this woman make you happy when you are with her.. when you think about her does it make you smile knowing that she is yours.. you are the one she has chosen to be with.. could you see yourself being okay with her being with someone else.. your young and your relationship is young.. you'll get over it.. remember, you only live once so don't waste your time worrying.. if you love her and are happy then therein lies your answer.
u need to gt it togethr
Submitted by marquisha on October 2, 2009 - 1:41pm.u need to gt it togethr ...cuz aint to many good females out here nomre.....she bein gud to and u havn doubts about her....and if u realli wnt to be with her u need tyo show her that....and if ur havn doubts u need to take sum time and think why u mite be feelin this way sweetheart u gne keep on bein confused and its gonna fuk up things in da long run...