help! how to convince my mom?please answer:)

ok so im 14 and my mom is very strict and isnt sure if she should let me pierce my cartilage in my ear. so i really want that piercing can you please help ma and give me ideas on how to convince my mom? please please!

it's your ear not hers. it's not like you're getting something nasty peirced & showing it to everyone. an ear piercing is an ear piercing whether it's on the bottom or top of your ear.