Help me out here?? please?

Ok so i want to find out if the guy i like has a gf but idk how.. see the thing is i've never talked to him before but i do know his friends.. however, if i ask them they will tell him so please help? how do i do this discreetly? thanks

talk to his frnds like this......say....everybody has a gf these days....or smthng like this....might help...

opensecrecy's picture

well
first you have to establish a friend base with him
chill as a group with his friends and get to know him a bit better
after a while you can move on to the heavier stuff (do you like anyone, how many ppl have you dated, etc)
and be yourself
he's just a boy and if he does have a girl dont be down
stay a friend bc when the break does come he's gonna need someone to vent to
and if that person is you, be a FRIEND first and comfort him
later you may wind up together, who knows?
the point is to take it slow and easy
its a process, but if you really do like him a lot, its worth waiting for bc it will only be better after time has passed
i have been in this situation before, and this process does work for me
i hope it works for you to
best of wishes =]

amorous's picture

lol first start off by tlking to him, and talk alittle more with his friends, watch how he cts with girls and strt looking if hes cuddly with someone. also, if he has a gf but flirts with you nd starts relly liking you shes taost, WARNING!: this may cause rumors and problems with the former g/f, so if he does hav a girl but starts gettin cute with you then mke sure u guys r good friends and tht is all and when they break up tada ur there n he has seen the light, which will b shining above your head lol

CB What's picture

if he has a myspace look at his top and his comments.
sneaky but it works.

the only way you can get the information and trust is if u go up to him and ask him yourself. Well actually just start talking to him, and become friends that way he doesn't know thats what u want to know, and then just ask him one day out of nowhere. Trust me it works...iv had 2 do it b4 myself
~Good Luck
~Britt

jacky1994's picture

The only way is to go up to him and start talking to him.
And then ask him..
Otherwise you will be stuck in this situation