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How do i tell my parents that i need help. I think i'm depressed. I have lost pretty much everything. I lost my boyfriend bc all my friends lied to him and told him i cheated and lied and things that were no where near true. So i lost my friends to. My family and i are not that close. No one at school will listen, if i say one thing that could be considered bad about someone else, they will say they dont want to think bad of that person or that they basicaly dont care. My teachers are no help. I've herd that depression pills are just sugar pills and you think their helping even tho their fake. I don't care for sycology people, bc they mainly can't stand by me and help me at school, just like all the students there, and thats the place i'm scared of the most and i can't go to a new school. This has been going on for a few months. I never feel like eating, most days i wont eat breakfast or lunch. and i force myself to eat dinner bc i know i have to eat something. And if i eat i always feel so sick and want to throw up. The first month this happened i lost 10 lb. and i'm starting to lose weight again, and this is not the way i want to lose it. I get less then 4 hrs of sleep and i've tried different kinds of sleeping pills. I'm always crying. I'm never able to get all the bad stuff out of my head. I keep on trying to figure out how i could fix things with my ex bf and friends. but none of those ppl care or will listen to me. My grades are going down again. And my stomach, chest, neck and head always hurt. My parents knew that things weren't good months ago. but they think things are ok now. but its only gotten worse. I dont know how to get threw this or how to tell my parents.
hey, i just want to say that
Submitted by roflabbiexd on February 22, 2010 - 7:11pm.hey, i just want to say that things will get better if you believe they will. life can get hard, and i understand you. Your parents, love you. No matter what, no matter how much you might think they dont at times, they DO. so what i would do, is pull the parent your most comfortable with aside one day, like when your driving alone in a car or sitting together watching tv and start by telling them, "mom/dad we need to talk, about how i feel right now." and be honest, let it out. I've been here, telling them isnt easy, but once you start, it will be easy. you cant live like this, its not fair to you. If your not into stuff at school, ask to see a therapist. If you have insurance most therapist are only 50 dollars co-pay and you can go once every two months. Offer to maybe get a job to pay for it yourself. Therapist helped me, and i dont use any pills. Aniexty and depression come and go, worsen or lessen at certain times, you just have to be honest and START with talking to your parents.
try not to waste your thoughts on the friend/bf thing. it obsly wasnt meant to be.
and with time, the right friends and guy will come along, thats the least of your worries.
try to smile, be honest and relax.
its easier said then done/i wish i could take my own advice. but it will get better with time. goodluck!!!
Write a really nasty note to
Submitted by yolkyolk on January 22, 2010 - 4:22pm.Write a really nasty note to your boyfriend or friends for lying, but dont send it. youll feel betetr.