Boyfriend or friend?

believe the guy....since u already know the girl has feelings for him...so she's definitely trying to ruin things for u...in my opinion..

I been talking to him since October - and she dated him before that - he clamed he had to find her number to give it to me back in november - cause she was a friend - when her and i started talking - no 3some ever happened - i learned he does a lot of stuff to me that he did to her - so her and i became friends - so she would text me and say that he text her or asked her to come over - he claims she is doing it to get him back, which i know she still has feelings for him - I was very leary about the situation from the get go - he was talking with my other friend and normally in that case, hands-off - then he is divorced and has a kid - which nromally means to me - hands off - but i took the chance - now i am kind of stuck on all this

how long have you been "talking" to him.. why would he give you a girls number to get a 3some arranged.. did he know you two knew each other.. very shady of him.. guys will deny that kind of stuff.. what is their history.. why would she lie.. why would he give you her number instead of asking you, if you were consenting, to finding your own 3rd person for said occasion.. he has her number and suggested you call her for the 3 person "party".. so they HAVE to talk, at least on occasion..

technically it could be true - usually he doesnt come out till later around 8 or 9, so mayb e he was talking to her before, i dunno. in some aspects i think i dont believe him, just cause it could be the way she says, i have mentioned it to him, and of course he denies everything - I dunno _ it is really bothering me though

I think you should believe the boy... I mean c'mon... If you were sitting with him on the nights she claims she was taking with him then she is obviously trying to set him or you up. She may just be a little jealous that you got what she can't have.