Confused....insight/advice please?

A girl i'm interested in has been difficult lately in terms of reading what she's thinking and her intensions. Unfortunately we live in two separate states next to each other and have only been able to catch up once this summer. She texts me a decent amount and lately has been IMming me via AIM more, but for some reason when I call she never picks up, and would apologize later for missing it on aim or text. (on the same token, she came out of a relationship 1-2 months ago..so i can kind of understand) She flirts me a lot, asks me personal questions (ranging from how many girlfriends i've had to how many times have i fallen in love) and rushes/signs off aim to tell me to text her and we'd text back and forth a lil bit before going to bed.

I asked her to hang out saturday a few days ago, and she said she should be able to if she doesn't have work :-/ but hasn't got back to me since. I'm just so confused what's going on >.< help please?

summergirl's picture

Her behavior reflects lack of serious interest, maybe because of the distance between the two of you, maybe because she is also interested in others or maybe because she just isn't very serious about a relationship with you. It is best to ask HER and tell her how you are feeling!

amorous's picture

welp first off shes confused about wat she wants. second, ya she likes u and all butshe may not want to b in a relationship with u. and im'ing is alot less personal then talking on the phone, she can ask u those personal ?s when shes not actually speaking ya know? she does lik talking to u tho. i hope i helped at least alil

missgallagher's picture

Say everything you have said in this question to her.

Ask her if she likes you.

She knows better than anyone else on this site.

She will give you the best answer.

Good luck!