Guys, do you think this is stalking?

I really like my coworker. We work in different departments. We have talked ONCE, but we don't really know each other. I barely see him at work anymore. I used to see him a lot during the summer but now I never see him! My sister has him on Facebook (I don't have Facebook) and she gave me his email address so that I can talk to him on MSN. I added him 4 months ago but I never talked to him yet because either one of us wasn't on. Do you think he'll think it's strange that I got out of my way just to talk to him? Do you think he'll think I'm a stalker? I don't see how I could be considered a stalker if I talked to him once.

Don't do it. it's definitely stalkerish. guys aren't into that.
if you still haven't talked to him since that first time... forget about it.

The Sage's picture

yes he will probably think that you are an evil predator with nothing better to do but track him down and seduce him and obviously he wants no part of you so leave him alone. And you, the person who made the prior comment,don't know your butt from a hole in the ground

you're not a stalker.. you're fine.. and that's what facebook is for.. to get in touch with people you know..