Help me choose please

okay so there are 5 guys i really care about. randen, christian, jesse, matt, and bryan.
i've had a past with 3 of the guys and i don't know who to choose. i'll explain a little about each of them:
Randen: Randen can always bring a smile to my face without trying, i've never really gotten over how i felt about him. I was his first time and we both meant a lot to each other. i got grounded for a month which cause the break. He plays football and is amazing in every way that i can think of, but lately he can't make up his mind if he wants to be friends or more. and sometimes he just says to leave him alone, but will come back 10 minutes later and apologize. it kills me everytime and he doesn't know how bad it really hurts me.

Christian: Christian has been there for me half the time. hes hurt me a lot though also. we've never been together, but almost. We never got together for two reasons. One, he would believe other people over me and it hurt me to know he wouldn't take my word when i was telling the truth. i'd never lie to someone i care about it. 2nd reason being Randen is one of his friends and i met him through Randen while we were dating. This kid can always make me happy unless hes being a dick. and lately im trying to get him to change but it doesn't seem to work.

Jesse: With Jesse i can be any person i want to be. he has lied to me a lot which has pushed me further and further away. we've had an on and off relationship together since 5th grade and we're now in 11th. so the past 6 years. he is also a football player, but also very busy all the time. but when he is there nothing else matters.

Matt: Matt and i met through Jesse during school last year. he is also a football player and we could have a chance, but he just got out of a 6 month long relationship and im worried hes pushing himself into something too fast. i don't wanna be a rebound. but he knows what to say to cheer me up and i cant get him off my mind.

and Bryan: Bryan and i just dated for a month over the summer and broke up the 2nd day that school started. so its been about a week and half since that relationship ended. i miss him all the time and wish something could still be there between us. i feel hurt that he hurt me and that i possibly hurt him even worse. i love the boy with my heart.

now with me. im emotional and just want someone to really care. someone to love and really be there for me. could any of these guys be him?

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JoyPadilla7's picture

I Think Matt Or Randen. Randen Because He Was Yeer First. Matt Because He Seems Like A Nice Guy That Can Keep A Long Relationship And Based On That That Proves He Is All The Things A Legitimate Bf. I Think More Matt(:

amorous's picture

okey dokey,, honestly i dont think you should date any of them if you have so many feelings for these other guys but if you have to date any of them then here is my advice:
Christian- dont date him, you need your bf to trust you and take your word for things, not someone elses.
Jesse- ive had a jesse before and trust me hun it is just a heart ache waiting to happen.
Matt- become good friends with him and wait till you klno he is really done with his ex
Bryan- cant say a whole lot because you didnt say alot about him
Randen- ive also dated a randon before and they are fun but before u get serious with him make sure he wants to and isnt going to back out
ok so here it is all wrapped up. keep all these guys as friends, it helps to have back ups and honestly guy buds are the best. i think either randon or jesse
good luck

Adren's picture

my first question to you is, are any of these guys pursuing you.. just because you still care for them doesn't necessarily mean you can get any of them.. it has to be a mutual thing.. I would discount the ones who hurt you coz it will be a continous pattern with these guys, like Jesse and Bryan.. it sounds like Randen would be the logical choice here but only if he wants to be with you.. you can't force someone to be with you.. it's hard to be at your age and want someone there and be going through all these mini-relationships but that's what happens in high school.. it sounds to me like you and Bryan were just a summer fling, which is very common.. a lot of times people date a person only for the summer and as soon as school begins they move on.. Matt probably is on the rebound and is probably just going to use you for sex to get over his last beau.. Christian will never trust you if he doesn't believe you for anything and without trust there is no relationship so skip that one coz even if a relationship does occure it'll be chalked full of problems.. this is what I can tell you according to your information but I could always be wrong.. this is just my opinion.. often times when you stop looking for love it finds you.. it sounds cliche but it's true.. love likes to catch you off guard and it's a wonderful thing when it does.. good luck.