i feel guilty

i think you should like who you like. dont worry about your friend. if she cant handle some competition then she really cant like that guy. its perfectly normal to like the same guy your friend does. ive been in that position. my best friend liked the guy ive known for a really long time and he was like my best best friend i told him everything, well i started to think that i liked him and she just suddenly liked him too. we didnt get in a fight cause i realized he really wasnt for me. but still go with your heart and since this guy obviously cares about you then you should stick with him if you really like him. its ok if you lose a friend. it happens to everybody. but make sure you really like him before you give up a friend. i know that is confusing but you just have to follow your heart.

i think he cares bout you but is goin loose the friendship

well he definitely cares about you. My freind does the same thing. we go to a pretty small school and the guy that everyone likes (that's my friend), I can't like him, she gets mad when I text him, even though he likes me now and her too but he likes her looks and thats about it,but he likes me for my personality and stuff like that too.ANYWAYS, SOMETIMES guys are worth loosing a friend if they're a better friend then your other "friend" is or will ever be.

He obviously likes you but is he worth throwing a friendship away.. you need to weigh out the pros and cons to keeping him versus keeping your friend.. which is more valuable to you..

Don't worry about what other people think of who you like.
But your kinda in a weird position.