men! please explain this

I disagree, but I could be wrong.. I think you are letting your expectations get the best of you.. life is funny in the way that karma comes back to you, or Godsmack, actually.. you say people falling for you within a month has been a problem for you yet this guy has not and you are upset.. you want him to be just like the others.. but not everybody is the same.. not every relationship is built the same.. it's been five weeks and you believe it should take months to build up yet you are complaining that this is working out the way you say you want it to.. kinda silly of you don't you think.. you get what you want and now you don't want it.. but it's understandable coz you're used to guys falling head over heals for you instantly and this guy has not shown that, which is why you like him even more.. he is a challenge to you and you can't help but to love it and hate it at the same time.. the truth is, he is crazy about you.. come on.. he calls you everynight before bedtime.. guys don't just do that.. is he sleeping with somebody else, probably not.. you see him often and talk all the time.. that's a relationship.. what else do you need from him.. it's too soon for him to tell you that he loves you.. you have a perfect growing relationship.. don't let your past experiences ruin that.. get out of your head and enjoy it.. if you really feel discontent and want more then talk to him about it.. but you may scare him off.. girls often ruin relationships this way.. and guys do it too.. one person has it all and they are not happy and they get crazy and are never satisfied.. think about it.. hope it gives you insight and helps.. good luck and remember: live, love and laugh.. don't sweat the insignificant.

when a guy says u are cute he does not like u that way plain and simple. he is just using and nothing more. taking it too far.

... that is a large possibility. thanks for the honesty

that is bc u were to easy...no offense...but i kinda think he just wants u for sex :)