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i thought all my questions would be over and my life would be great with my girlfriend....but i was wrong. This time my girlfriend has a friend and she always likes to talk to him, ever since he came into her life, i technically am losing her, she barely talks to me now, and whenever i see her, shes with this other guy, sadly i don't know what to do, as always....but luckily i know this sight because you guys help me, i need help because its like she doesn't even see me anymore, all she does is hang and talk with him, i am white, and shes black, and her friends black....do you think its because there both the same race or what? i just want my girlfriend back to love me like before, she hasn't been the same for about a month now, and i am afraid to lose her, she also talked to me once, and literally said that he smacked her *** and then kissed her on the lips, which gets me mad, but i don't wanna be like a bully and mess with him and maybe start a fight with him, jamrie's the only thing i can turn to right now....please i need your help. I want my girlfriend back....
Ask her how she feels about
Submitted by Miss_Answers on November 17, 2009 - 1:22pm.Ask her how she feels about you, and tell her to be straight up, and honest. Ask her if she has any feelings for this guy. Sometimes girls tend to be interested in other guys, not because they want to date them, but to feel a sense of happiness to know that they can still "get someone" it doesnt mean she doesnt love you, or want to be with you, but since she told you that he smacked her A**, and kissed her on the lips then she might be trying to make you jealous,or maybe she wants you to stand up for her. Standing up for the person you love doesnt ALWAYS mean fighting. i hope this helped :]
yeah i agree...talk to
Submitted by just an idiot on November 17, 2009 - 12:36pm.yeah i agree...talk to her...a frnd of mine had a similar problem and i told him the same thing....say smthing like...'i dont care who ure frnds with but im afraid that i might lose u and all i want u to know is that i love u and that is why i dont feel comfortable when u seem to be more comfortable around other guys than me.l...im sorry for acting like this ....i really am....but i dont want to lose u to anyone....'...just speak ur heart out man....
Have you tried talking to her
Submitted by Cheerio11582 on November 17, 2009 - 9:44am.Have you tried talking to her and telling her how you feel. Don't make it seem as you are jealous of him, but let her know you are afraid of losing her and how she makes you feel when you are together and when you are not - Ask her? I would want someone to be honest with me regarding this. Sometimes people have a hard time reading other people, Some people don't mind things, that these things may get on other peoples nerves. I am a very tolerable person most of the time, but sometimes the littlest things bother me, but everyone is different. I say express your true feelings for her and tell her how you feel. Maybe set one night or two for the just the two of you - Tell her you want to be able to hang out with her friends sometimes, but allow her to have her own time also. Meet her half way.