Please help with this confusing girl situation
Ok i'm in college and theres this shy girl who really doesnt talk to a lot of people but she has a few friends. She started talking and I can tell she really likes me by the nonverbal communications and how I catch her stairing at me and I like her, now I just found out she has a boyfriend back at home that goes to another college and I think they seem really close with each other. When we talk she only mentioned him once. N
ow I told her that I got the feeling that she liked me but I knew she had a boyfriend and everything and she acted so differently to me after that it was actually really awkward. So we agreed on being friends but she still avoids me. She stoped sitting next to me in class and 3 days later i got a text saying she needed a while cause it was awkward and she said she loves her b/f, and she wasnt sure how i got the impression i liked her.
Now 3 months went by and I found out a couple weeks ago, her and her b/f broke up. she still stares at me and avoids me in public but talks to me online during this 3 month span. Why is she doing this?
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She is giving mixed signals.
Submitted by jacky1994 on April 7, 2009 - 9:44am.She is giving mixed signals. She doesnt want to open up to any1 right now.
Maybe her last relationship with her bf was bad.
You should try talking to her and if that doesnt work then you cant really do anything about it.
She is just too shy to talk to you in person so she talks to you online.
Hope that helps. :)
as for her and her bf
Submitted by earniemc on April 7, 2009 - 12:12am.as for her and her bf breaking up....there could b other reasons. but hey maybe she is confused and maybe she thinks your cute and wants to get to know you. She probably just feels awkward talking to you in public right now and internet talking is so much easier. just wait it out and see what happens. dont rush anything just take the time to get to know her. you have to be patient with someone who is shy.
Shes probably just a private
Submitted by admin on April 7, 2009 - 12:12am.Shes probably just a private person. Shy people dont open up as much and dont always talk about their life until they get to know the person more. Trust me i know i am a shy girl. And you shouldnt of said that you got the feeling she liked you. I wouldve totally felt awkward to. thats really just not somthing you say to someone when you barely know them yah know?
sometimes shy people will
Submitted by Beautiful_soul162010 on April 7, 2009 - 12:11am.sometimes shy people will stare alot. im shy and people would tell me i gave them dirty looks when i dont even remember looking at them. so maybe she doesnt realize she is staring at you.
also, have you ever had a girlfriend and still thought a girl was attractive? hmmm yes it always happens. She might think you are attractive but she probably doesnt like you in that way. If she loves her bf and is really close to him like you say then shes not going to want someone else even if she thinks he is hott or somthing. I love my bf soooo much and we are so close. I never try to get w some other guy i think is attractive and i will still be their friend but im not like omg i need to be with this guy.. lol im just not like that. so maybe she thinks you are attractive or maybe she just thought you were a cool person to hang w so thats why she stared at you. theres other reasons than just thinking someones cute.
she probably likes you just a
Submitted by constella on April 7, 2009 - 12:11am.she probably likes you just a little, but didn't want anyone (including you and her ex-boyfriend) to know it. she said she didn't like you because she loved her boyfriend at the time, and didn't want to ruin her relationship with him. she's avoiding you because she feels awkward around you now. she wants to be friends, but she now knows that you thought she liked you so it's very weird for her. this won't last much longer if you act on it. talk to her online and ask her to chill as friends and apologize for the askward-ness about everything in the past. i know how you feel. i've had so many relationships where we talk online all the time, but in public... not so much. start by going little gestures in public like smiling and waving. when she comes into class wave her your way and ask her to sit next to you. just be friendly and nice for about a month. after the friends stage isn't awkward anymore, work your way up to more than friends(:
I believe she did not like
Submitted by slaveofdahorse on April 7, 2009 - 12:01am.I believe she did not like you at first but I think she may have opened up to the idea of you after you told her what you did. I don't know why she would be talking to you online or staring at you for that matter if she was trying to avoid you and trust me she would be if she was completely uninterested. You should evaluate these online conversations and see how they go. Also sometimes girls like it when they think guys like them just because it's a matter of comfort whether they are interested or not.
Well she probably has some
Submitted by Michie123 on April 6, 2009 - 10:56pm.Well she probably has some attraction to you, but also has feelings for her bf now ex bf. She started to avoid you because she didn't want to lead you on, and make you think that there was any chance. Now that she broke it off with her ex-boyfriend, she needs time to think. If she talks to you online, but not in person is because she just broke it off with her boyfriend and if she approached you, well she doesn't want you to think something that is not. Just give her time, and whenever you talk to her online, ask to hang out with her....see what her reaction will be.