sex??

i love this guy so much we have been together 9 monthes
i am only 15
he is 17
he feels that were ready to have sex
but he wont push me
and im not sure if i will regret is afterwards

Listen to me really well. I do not want to sound like a jackass but I know exactly where you are coming from and you should not have sex with him. Any smart man would not push you to have sex, but I have to say all teenage boys have sex on their mind at least half of the time(fact). I can tell you from experience that nothing good can come out of you two having sex. I was 15 and my ex was 17, after we did it he had almost no intrest in me what so ever. So do not do it!
Not to mention that in most states if you were to have sex it would be illegal, and if any one found out he would be arrested for rape. So if even the law says you should not do it then PLEASE do not do it!

marquisha's picture

yes da fuk u will regret it .....bkus he aint put no ring on it sweetheart and yall not bound to stay togethr......if yall break bkuz of wateva ur urges are going to fuk u up big time .....once u gt sum dik u aint goin to be able to resist unless u turn gay...lol

only if you feel like this is the guy that is not just with you for sex

rgs-jman's picture

im only 13 but wait until your married, i thinks that probally best, and be protected

well sweetie my opinion is that you should wait long as possible until you yuh absolutely positively ready

CB What's picture

it is up to you
be safe

Chanteal's picture

Have sex when your ready never let anyone change your mind, when it's time for you, you will know..

jacky1994's picture

You shouldnt do it if you arent ready.
You are young.. he is pressuring you.
It doesnt seem like it is truee love

spinsmyrevolver's picture

believe me sex is a big thing
it leaves you with emotions that are sometimes very hard to deal with
i would wait if i were you
your only 15 you have your entire life to do things like that
and i know you guys have been together 9 months but you dont want to have sex and somthing happens to where you regret it
after you have sex your not innocent anymore, you no longer feel like a child anymore
and if he has real feelings for you he would wait for you, promise
having sex in a relationship changes things
so make sure you both are ready for all the changes and
risks associated with it
i know i cant make your mind up its your decision,
just think hard about it
and if you do end up having sex make sure you are safe
there are so many people i know that have babies and wish they had been more responsible about it

plus if this is your first time, you will always remember who you lose your virginity to
make sure its to someone special when you feel its right
once its gone theres no going back

best wishes

Tammy's picture

I am 16. I regret loosing mine. Wait until your at least 17.