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Submitted by .brandnew. on June 27, 2009 - 12:06am
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I've been dating this boy for about two weeks, but we've also gone out about 8 months ago for a month and a half.
The first time, he broke up with me with no warning, just a 40 second long phone call
I really liked him, his personality, he was just the right amount of chill
But when we kiss now, i don't feel anything..
I used to look forward to hooking up with him and now it's like eh, whatever
I'm just wondering if the physical attraction will develop over time? Is it really that important? is this a big enough issue that i should end things?
I'm just all around confused :/
I wouldn't end things based
Submitted by kalila910 on June 30, 2009 - 11:03am.I wouldn't end things based on the physical attraction! There is so much more to a relationship than that. Make sure he's committed to you before you even think about worrying about that aspect. I would back off if I were you. A guy is only worth your time if he's committed to put time into you. If he broke up with you like that last time, what's stopping him from doing that again?
Just move on, its time.
Submitted by 91jchevy87ec on June 30, 2009 - 12:41am.Just move on, its time.
aw i saw you dump him.. a
Submitted by roflabbiexd on June 29, 2009 - 9:38pm.aw i saw you dump him.. a kiss tells all okay?
maybe it karma on his side.
if you dont feel it now, you wont feel it later.
good luck and follow your heart.
JUST BE YOUR SELF IF U FEEL
Submitted by 210_dimepiece on June 29, 2009 - 6:46pm.JUST BE YOUR SELF IF U FEEL THAT THIS GUY IS NOT HTE ONE THEM JUST DUMP IT AWAY . DO THIS WUT DOES UR HEAT SAY IF U HEART SAYS TO BE WITH HIM THEM BE IT. BUT IF IT DOES NOT TELL U TO BE WIT HIM JUT BE FRINDS OK
It's natural to feel this
Submitted by Moderator on June 27, 2009 - 4:02am.It's natural to feel this way.. he just dumped you cold turkey, and in a harsh way.. you were both hurt and disappointed.. you resent him a little and don't really trust him now.. has he given you a reason for it.. anyway, it doesn't matter.. so you're back with him and now you feel nothing..feelings do fade over time but to grow feelings back is something different.. I don't think you'll ever feel the same way about him.. seoond chance relationships rarely work with ease.. at least in my opinion.. it is important that you feel attracted coz the goal here is to be with the most perfect person.. what if you meet someone just as chill and you become very attracted to him.. you would more than likely cheat.. you should just end things and tell him something I was told once and didn't understand til later, "it just wasn't there.".. tell him it once was but not anymore for whatever reasons.. he messed up by breaking up with you last time and your feelings for him changed and that's that.. it is what it is.. it won't be easy but in the end a much better choice.. sit on it for a while.. if you have to try really hard then leave.. relationships shouldn't be so difficult, I don't care what anybody else says.. don't settle for less when you can wait it out and find the best.. good luck.