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Ok, so I have known this guy for a while, but on a very casual level. Lately I am seeing signs of him being possibly attracted to me. But I am not sure. I notice that he is now initiating conversations, he's giving me A LOT of eye contact, and so on. But on the same note, he does not really smile. He sits and stares...which I like, by the way. I've invited him out with a group of friends and he did come a long. At the same time, he's not really talking to me. He is now aware of the fact that I am fond of him, yet he does not make a move. But there are times when he simply sit and stare. Knowing him for as long as I do, I know he is shy and I know he is inexperienced with women, so I can't have the same expectations of a guy who is a serial dater. Why would he knows that I like him and still not make a move. But at the same time, he sits and stares...I saw him recently and he was staringI could tell cos I was looking at him through the corner of my eyes...Yet when I turned to look at him, he turned his head so quickly, (which made it even more obvious) What am I to do? I need help! Should I pursue or give up? Oh by the way I texted him, and he never answered.
P.S. This guy is very decent, he's as much inexperienced with relationships as I am! Please take that into consideration!
My only suggestion on the
Submitted by Cheerio11582 on November 17, 2009 - 9:27am.My only suggestion on the pursuing part - Don't go overboard - Been there done that, and all it winded up doing was causing heartache for myself. I have no problems telling people how i feel, and I am straight up and honest with people, but there are some guys who could care less to know, and then some want to know, START on slow and gradually get there. No rush on love.
i agfree with adren. i think
Submitted by Miss_Answers on November 16, 2009 - 7:53pm.i agfree with adren. i think you should try pursuing him, and you never have to worry about the what ifs. if he is not into you, atleast you gave it your best shot, and if he is, then youll be glad that you got up enough courage to try it.
=] good luck
I simply said a group of us
Submitted by Sparkkxx on November 10, 2009 - 3:43pm.I simply said a group of us were hanging out and wanted him to come along!
what did you text him.. he's
Submitted by Adren on November 10, 2009 - 3:41pm.what did you text him.. he's obviously gotten under you skin so you're curious about what can become of this.. he's shy and insecure so it's up to you.. the ball is in your court.. you have to get things rolling.. pursue him.. you don't want to be left with that "what if" thought lingering in your head.. good luck.