Tips on approaching girls?

Hi there. I used to be a very shy guy some time ago. I still am shy, but not that much (I couldn't help looking a girl in the eyes, now I can do that and smile, even though I'm still nervous!). Thanks to 2 girls I met, which is the main reason I'm more relaxed now, I learned how to be myself, stop caring about what others think and discover a hidden talent: my humor. When I told one of them it was the first time I made a girl laugh, she responded that she couldn't believe it and that I was one of the funniest boys she knew! So I kinda improved on my social skills.

I still have a problem approaching girls though. I try to speak to as many girls as I can as 'practice', both attractive and average, but I can't help it with girls I don't know, although I think that my change has attracted some girls. I freeze when I start moving towards them and stop, because I don't know what to say. I always am myself, but sometimes, even if I get to approach them, either I can't be funny (mind gets stuck!) or I can't project as much confidence as I was.

About my 'dating' character. I'm not the bad boy obviously and I don't wanna be one. I like being kind to girls, romantic and sweet, but I think that at the same time this is a flaw and that girls don't like it as much as I think because they always go for more 'dirty' guys. Do you think I should change something in my tactics? I don't mean becoming a bad boy, I really like being myself. Thanks!

Every girl is different, some like the "bad" or "dirty" boy and others like the clean romantic type. It is something you need to try to figure. Always remember this, the girl is probably just as embarrassed or nervous as you are. Some girls like the aggresive guys, making the first moves, gives them a sense of what he wants.