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Quoteswhat's the deal with this guy? I've been strugglin to find out...plz help me!!!!!!!
OK so here's my story.
Me and him were friends. Actually I caught him staring at me once (that time I didnt know him at all), then we met at a meeting and he talked to me. Recently my BFF told me that he thought I was pretty. So I thought he was cool and I invited him and my BFF to go to a party with me. My BFF couldnt go so it was just me and him. We had loads of fun. We used to joke around. But then all of a sudden, he acted weird around me. He didnt talk to me anymore, he might talk to anybody, any girls, just NOT me. So we didnt talk during the winter break. After the break, he suddenly hit on my facebook window, he went "Dumass... Oh shyt wrong window". (he always called me dumass and I called him dummy too...it was just a joke). Then I went "u just ruined my movie". So he went "you are the worst and dummest person ive known. Im blocking you". As the matter of fact he never did. Today he hit me on fb again and he started to talk really mean to me. And he keeps talkin about the night when i was so drunk and kissed a boy that I didnt kno. That happened like 3 months ago and he keeps mentioning about that. It really gets on my nerves. And then he asked if i like the guy i kissed. Then he said bye, and sign off fb.
So wats the deal with him? Does he like me? Or does he hate me?
FYI, he has a gf already, but she is all the way in Nepal, he's here in the US.
Thanks guys, I really appreciate any help!!!!!!!
It is always hard to tell how
Submitted by Cheerio11582 on February 4, 2010 - 3:07pm.It is always hard to tell how guys are feeling, it is funny - my x was hot and cold - never knew how he felt - i always told him how I felt and everything - he always shyed away from the topics. I am talking to this new guy and he is the same way - you need to find out what exactly how he feels - tell him just to be honest with you -
simple....he thinks he has
Submitted by just an idiot on January 29, 2010 - 3:20am.simple....he thinks he has feelings for u and then he remembers that he's committed...so he tries to ignore you....but then sometimes he cant....because if he didnt have any feelings for you then he'd just act normal around you....but he thinks he does...and thats why he acts cold around you....because his gf's really far away and he doesnt want to end up cheating on her either....id say just be normal with him...act cool...dont act too cold....but dont act too friendly either....just make sure that he knows that u'll be there whenever he needs anyone to talk to...be a good friend and hopefully everything will work out...
thank you...that's wat i
Submitted by betty on January 28, 2010 - 10:23pm.thank you...that's wat i think too...today i bumped into him in the hallway, i was too surprised when he saw me first and say hi and smiled at me like nothin happened, like he never said anythin mean to me, that I couldnt even say a word except for "hey"...Honestly whenever I see him Im like speechless...cuz i kinda like him too:(. I kno that he has a gf already, but i dont think distant relationship will work for him. So I still hope. But now he's acting hot and cold and I am so NOT sure if he may like me or not, so the whole time I havent shown him any interest. But now wat should I do? How can I get him to actually like me and tell me that he does like me?
he definitely might be
Submitted by just an idiot on January 28, 2010 - 10:10am.he definitely might be interested and i think he stopped talking to you because he has a gf....he is interested as more than frnds....that i can say for sure....because guys dont tease girls theyre not interested in THAT much...just a little maybe...but he's doing that a lot....so i say he could be interested...