when saying strong words, can the words change anything?

my best guy friend..
and we have tlked about dtaing and the reasons why it would be okay or not.
so he's made up his mind and doesnt want to risk our friendship.

we havent spoken of it since but i cant let him go not matter what! i dont want to say im insane or anything, but hes my best friend that i have more feelings towards. i cant help it i feel like were meant to be together. sometimes i want to push the panic button and say the feeling i feel, but no words can describe once the words are out.i dont think i will ever be able to say the 3 three words that mean the most to me and thats 'i love you'. i think about it all the time' what wuld happen if i told you these words, will it change anything?' like honestly waht do you think..?

gracie.blah's picture

↓ that person spoke all my words. ahahaha :]

opensecrecy's picture

honestly, it could change everything
or it could change nothing at all
it depend on how he is
but i honestly thing that if two people
with a strong friendship like you described
want to be more they should
and if you did break up, the thing is,
if it really is a strong friendship
you wont have to lose each other forever

my bf and i have been great friends for awhile
and we already know that even if we break up
not a damn thing of our friendship is gonna change
so go for it
tell him how ya feel
if he really is as great as you think, it will all be ok

amorous's picture

u have to make sure he feels the same way before u say something like that, thts a huge huge step. especially if you arent even dating, men run at the sound of that.

talk to him about your relationship!

jacky1994's picture

Tell him exactly how you feel and that if you think this relationship can be past our friendship then we should be more than friends. But if you dont think so then we should probably stay cool.