Why does it hurt all the time?

scary...this is extremely close to what happened to me and my ex
that ended with me no longer being able to stand even being in the same room with him (which sucks bc i have 4 classes with him at school)
the point is, i found someone else
a boy who treats me with respect and love and ive moved on past the one i so solidly thought i loved
what i think you should do, is break up before it gets to the point where you cant even be friends with him
have a girls night
flirt with a cute waiter ;p
(sry thats how i met my new bf haha)
but just dont let him get you down
love is a very comlex thing
if you two are ment to be it will happen, maybe not now
but it will if its supposed to
just dont let it get to the point where you hate to even see him
that will onlt make things worse
dont worry
you will make the right decision
and the universe will take care of you =]
best of luck sweetie

okay well me and him talked about it last night!
and he was depressed
while we were talking he asked me ..why i haven't broken up with him...because I'm always upset with him and hes always so jealous and clingy....
then he goes on saying how he's an ass hole to me cause he is really scared that i'm cheating on him....and he's so worried

and i told him everything how strongly i feel for him and how worried i am of losing him and everything and how long i really been in love with him how he makes me feel and everything...

you should talk to him tell him how you feel and if he doesn't change then you guys should probably

MY ADVICE IS FOR YOU TO HAVE A SERIOUS TALK WITH HIM AND IF HE DOESNT LISTEN..I KNOE ITS GOING TO HURT YOU BUT TELL HIM YOU ARE TIRED OF HIS BULLSHIT AND LEAVE HIM THEN IF HE COMES BACK TO YOU THEN THAT MEANS HE REALLY DID CARE FOR YOU...DONT WASTE YOUR TIME IF YOU ARE NOT GETTING ANYTHING GOOD OUT OF IT...THERE ARE MORE FISHES IN THE SEA...ITS PRETTY BIG...

Dating at young ages always leads to the fizz out. Its when there is nothing new and exciting and nothing really cares. I wouldn't take it personally, and dont let this hurt your confidence and self esteem. Remember to be strong and remeber if your not willing to marry this guy they there really is no point of dating, therefore if everything ended it wouldn't be that devastating, but you would probably regret less in the future when you actually get married to the man your really love.

Think about staying pure for your husband! Dont cheat on him ;) even though hes in your future :)!

he probably does care for you just try to tweak into a conversation and if that relationship isn't going anywhere just be like it time to move on...

That situation does not sound too fun. First of all, if he makes you unhappy then maybe you should break it off
Second of all, maybe you should just sit down and talk through it and try to find out what is wrong. I hope everything gets better.

It sounds like hes going through depression or another tough time and taking out his emotions on your relationship even though its not the cause. If he feels that your lying to him, chances are he feels that he doesn't deserve the love and the relationship. I would try to find out whats truly going on. It could just be that hes going through changes and needs some space, but if you two truly love each other you'll be able to talk it out and work through it!
Good luck

It sounds like there are issues in a relationship that you and him have pushed under the carpet. You need to sit down and have a good talk with him about where you are heading with the relationship, what are his problems, how he sees the relationship, how you see the relationship, etc.

This might result in you breaking up because both of you realse that for whatever reason the relationship is not working but it's better than keeping on plodding along in a dysfunctional relationship.

I really hope you guys work it out...unfortunately, love hurts but the rewards are also great, when it does work. Best of luck!

he does care for you
just ask him if he cares
nd tell him 2 prove it 2 you