Should girls ask guys out too?

Just want to hear all of you guys answers!
If yes or no, please tell me why.

YES!...i mean...i totally agree with adren...its 2010...many relationships never happen coz the guys's too shy...or afraid of the frndshp being ruined and the girl just waits for him to ask her out....girls totally should too....many great relationships can be made that way...

Adren's picture

yes, definitely.. we are in 2010.. this isn't the mid 1900's.. girls are independent now.. they don't wait around for a guy to ask her to marry her so she can move out and become a housewife.. and more importantly, as we can see here, there are a lot of girls with crushes and do nothing and guys with crushes who are too shy/insecure.. we need to meet in the middle and cut out that double standard.. in my experience the times girls have been forward with me have been great.. you have to tell someone you like them eventually once the ice is broken so what is the difference.. there's no reason why girls, and guys, shouldn't go for what they want.. the more you do it the better you get at it, like anything else.. rejection fades very quickly; you get over it and move on.. there was this quote in a movie that I loved.. it's in reference to alchohol but the context is dead on.. it says(more or less not exactly not sure): "God put alcohol in the world to make women loose and men brave.".. first, let me say that the term loose does not mean slutty it means more easy going, less standoffish, more approachable, more open to go up to guys, etc... and men lose their insecurities under the influence of alcohol and are bold enough to approach girls.. of course too much alcohol makes a person sloppy so be careful and of age.. but we shouldn't need alcohol.. women need to ask guys out too.